1 0 obj Mom spent hours taking photos of this sweet little creature. As his family, we watched Dad decline with dementia for 25 years. Shannon recently told me she prayed to God frequently to take her. I love you so much. Because you'll know where they come from. As I said in eulogizing her: "I suspect many of them were younger and healthier than she was. You were unusually alert. [Name] taught me a lot about [description], something I will never take for granted. Im [name], [Name] [oldest/youngest/older/younger] [brother/sister]. When she was babysitting Marty when he was 3, he helped her pick berries and make jam. They both left a void in our hearts. At times I know for sure that Mom heard and reacted to what we were saying. Now, I know they came in part to support our dad in his time of grief, but I think it really speaks to the impact our mom had on people. Her top three favorite things were: [name three things]. Some would say our relationship was too close and my father used to warn me against "relying" on her too much, since he was trying to protect me from this exact day. Standing up here with only a few minutes to speak on how amazing they were and what they meant to me feels impossible. I will continue to write this column every week, because it's important to put this information in front of people, and to keep it in front of them. My mom invented that; out would come the camera and us kids would groan. [He/she] was beyond thoughtful -- [he/she] was one of the kindest and most compassionate people I've ever met and will ever meet. My mother and father loved their grand-dog Spencer. At the age of two, the whole family had gotten a flu bug. You did a wonderful job. You each played a role greater than you may know in her ability to continue bringing us blessings and love for 89 years. This special little poem for Marie works as a short eulogy example for any friend or loved one who had Dementia. The dog must have grabbed it out of the bucket it was soaking in. Advertisement. You had a passion for sports and a natural talent for competition. Z+i. You might also want to ask others to check it if you think they'd offer helpful feedback. My parents always got a chuckle out of that. What is a memorial website? I have run into so many people that have said to me, "I'm so sorry for your loss, [Name] was one of my best friends." He took a turn for the worse last Monday . My mother was the most incredible woman I have ever known. He was so happy in his recent move to Greenspring where he had a big office surrounded by at least 1,000 of his books, all in one room. I will never forget all the things you taught me. It seems almost everyone I talk to has lost a parent or grandparent to Alzheimer's, or is currently dealing with it in their extended family. Never one to back down from a fight, she spent almost her entire life dedicated to trying to improve our system, to the best of her ability. [Name] was nothing but [generous/kind/loving/helpful/hilarious/determined/accomplished] and was the pride of our family. I love you. He had a heart of gold, and he never hesitated to lend a helping hand or a listening ear to those in need. Grandma, I love you endlessly and have no idea how I'm to navigate this scary world without you by my side. Mothers Day is a difficult time for my grandma and myself, since losing my mom to early onset Alzheimers disease four years ago. He said it for us Thursday before Christmas as we gathered at Peters house for dinner. But beyond an amusement at the resemblance, there was something else evident in their tone. I find it hard to imagine playing a football match without Dad coming to watch. For those who don't know me, [Name] and I have been friends for practically our entire lives. Dad and Amby were working on the Ford Model As that were being used for Schelli and Ambys Wedding parade. That wasn't my intent. "(There's) no magic bullet, rather an array of mostly mundane choices accessible to almost anyone on the planet -- primarily diet and moderate amounts of exercise," she writes. Maybe that means spending time in the community garden. He sailed to Australia, taking his grandsons, Lee and Warren. With two kids and a wife wanting a critter he and mom figured out a way to make a guinea pig work with dads allergies. I think thats one of the many reasons we all loved Shannon, she made us feel special every moment we were with her. Her free time was spent supporting us, cheerleading for us, driving us to various activities, picking us up, hosting sleepovers, paying for our (many) mistakes, and being known to all as "the best Mom". []. Dad, you will never be forgotten. Despite my Dads quiet demeanor he definitely had had a wild and adventurous side . Mental illness would prove to be the battle of Shannons life. He was also a generous soul, always ready to lend a helping hand. You held that special talent of conversing easily with strangers, of making newcomers feel like oldtimers, and of holding space for anyone and everyone that needed it. She loved animals and nature. One evening there must have been 12 raccoons eating the seeds and other goodies mom fed to the critters. When the time comes for us to step down and leave our seat empty -- we should leave behind beautiful memories for those who continue to travel on the train of life. I would not have done many of these things if not for her. In her mothers last years my mom was by her side and took care of her and the two eventually made peace. Dementia is a growing challenge. To contact Dementia UK. But she was not only a humanitarian. One of my earliest memories of time with my grandma, which is a bit fuzzy at this point in my life, is going to work with her during a summer I was staying with her. Maybe that means setting up a walk or run (or any other fun activity) for a charity that you hold dear. She was a devoted mother, a compassionate humanitarian, and an inspiration to all who knew her. We spent all our time during that summer [description of activities] and the following years were spent periodically visiting [location] and inviting friends out for our annual [description of trip]. Some tools that sufferers and caregivers can use to manage dementia include: External memory aids: systems or devices, whether electronic or not, that help make up for decreased memory. Without your God-given sensitivity we would be immersed in greater ignorance at the anguish of AIDS and H.I.V. In the whole of the UK, the number of people with dementia is estimated at 850,000. Mom took care of Dad for years. Is she dead? I asked, in disbelief, but I knew the answer. We have all loved hearing what others thought of my Dad and am so happy that it was what we knew of him. You had such a bright future ahead of you and I am heartbroken that it has been cut so short. [He/she] instantly made people feel like [description]. I love you and miss you so much. You were the glue that held our family together. He had an eye for detail and a steady hand, and his creations were always stunningly beautiful. She will be deeply missed, but her memory will always be a source of inspiration for us all. She guided us through years and years and years of hardship, difficulty, joy, and achievement. It was probably my nose or the shape of my face; perhaps the hazel eyes or brown, curly hair. I will be grateful for all that I have been given. There are different difficulty levels and various activities such as crosswords, colouring pages, puzzles, drawing, matching images and how many. Her battle was over. I cant imagine hearing this as an 18 year-old. "Walter", George's grumpy and humorous alter-ego, was never afraid to . Hello, everyone. Lets honor [his/her] memory by continuing to spread love in this world and to try our best each and every day. My mom loved to care for others throughout her life. Carla R. Dearing had a joyous spirit, and love of family and a deep commitment to community service. I remember staring at the casket spray, made by my amazing friend Terri, through much of the memorial service. That is the kind of information I share with readers each week. Is a cognitive decline in the old always dementia? A lot can happen within that time span. She was a strong and independent woman, who always put others first. They can be written in many different ways depending on the person and the circumstances. When I held her in my arms for the first time, I knew. My mom was the center of my life and without her, I feel lost. But instead of giving up, she channeled her grief into a powerful force for good. Carla R. Dearing died on Dec. 7, 2014, at the age of 78, after a long, heart-breaking period of physical and mental decline inflicted on her by dementia. You have all made good points, and they highlight too that we have to judge it right for the particular person and the particular funeral. She wrote that parents will make many mistakes. He loved the food. They said their final goodbye to their only child after watching her struggle with Alzheimers disease for more than 10 years. Ashley Thomas has been battling dementia for the past two years. Music, painting, and dancing also played significant roles in my sisters healing. A great and memorable trip. When we graduated from college (we both attended [name of college]), she was right behind me on the stage, clasping her degree in [subject] while I held mine in [subject] -- far from our dreams as children. In the end, I think she felt misunderstood and no longer accepted, and thats what hurts the most. A successful journey consists of having a good relationship with all passengers, requiring that we give the best of ourselves. [She/He] was an amazing person, and I know that [she/he] will be deeply missed. We're not rats', Rectorial address, Glasgow University - 1972, For Geoffrey Tozer: 'I have to say we all let him down', by Paul Keating - 2009, for James Baldwin: 'Jimmy. My grandson, [Full Name] was an amazing young man. I'm less worried now, and ever more determined to protect myself and anyone else who finds this information beneficial. It has an ease of use that was specifically designed to accommodate these patients, with over 12 years of experience and research going into the design. I will be generous with my time, energy, and resources, and will commit to causes greater than myself. Thank you for coming and for joining my family in remembering my brother. Lots of great memories and we will miss her greatly! I've been a professional journalist for more than a decade, but without a doubt, my mother's eulogy was the hardest thing I've ever had to write. [Name] was [hardworking/intelligent/ferocious/hilarious/kind/gentle/etc.]. Shorter eulogies can become longer simply by adding in stories and memories that you hold dear or different aspects of your loved ones life youd like to share. I didnt know I would say goodbye to my mother eight days after I wrote Keep Me In Your Heart: A Fathers Day Wish. For those of us that were especially close to her, we likely also have memories of her always learning and growing into a person that overcame her prejudices. As the population ages and people live for longer, it has become one of the most important health and care issues facing the world. Growing up loving animals just like my mother I didnt have to look far to find a fuzzy or feathery friend to enjoy. The ABC store stocked it just for him. His loss is deeply felt by everyone in our family and of course, many of those who are not (but according to him, would be called family). I vividly remember my last good visit with you, about a month before you died, when (my brother) Russell and I came to see you the day before Mothers Day. It can even alert you when they've left (or entered) a certain area, as well as having an SOS button which connects a call to designated contacts in an emergency. I was basically raised by my mom and sister. A eulogy doesn't need to consist of only your own words. Those of you who know me, know how much my grandson meant to me, our family, and our community. I believe the truth is that our individual and collective memories tell of a woman that continued to be there no matter what the situation was. It slowly robs the afflicted of their precious memories of their life, their mind and eventually their body. When we lost [name], we lived only 20 minutes from each other and would see each other nearly every other day. My mother then took over for a few years on daily care before my sister Rebecca took over principal care and support in 2020, just as the pandemic hit. Then we held a graveside service later that day at Sealy Cemetery in Sealy, Texas. I know well all miss her [insert personality trait or something she was known for]. Though he was a man of few words, he made sure that my brother and I knew we were important, were loved, and were cherished. She lost many of her close connections, not because she OR we didnt want them, but because she was trying to navigate her new reality that included mania, paranoia, and delusions. [He/she] was [describe personality]. Foundational. My mom passed away two months ago, after a nearly 4 year battle with Lewy Body Dementia. The troubles and anxieties of life without memory are not a distant past as she walks clear-headed with Angels in Heaven. You were always there for me when I needed you. My heart was overflowing with love and joy each and every time I saw your sweet face. For someone who is diagnosed with it, there is no cure, and no treatment to reverse its course. To learn more about Barbara's life, visit her memorial website. Her husband, Robbie, is constantly finding small notes that Joie left behind, just little reminders that she still cares for him and is supporting him, despite this complication we call existence. Shannon viewed dance as therapy. The mystery that prevails is that we do not know at which station we ourselves will step down. She was my rock and the rock for so many people around her. Visit Juanita's memorial website to learn more about her life. But people dont quite know how to mourn someone whos still technically alive. You were her source of strength and inspiration to keep fighting when her life was turned upside down going from living alone to living with you, your two big sisters and brother, your mom and dad, and the dogs. You've cried with me. Perhaps my mate had learned about Dads illness the hard way, but how Dad handled it with such tenderness has stuck with me. The Evans Family circa 1966 Wedding Day. My brother and I dont have early memories of daycare, we have memories of being home with mom. I know every parent feels that way about their kid, but it's true -- [Name] was unique. She will never be forgotten. You were the love of my life and I will miss you forever. I was obsessed with any and all films of prince charmings, beautiful and big weddings, and women being swept off their feet. To lose him, means to lose a piece of myself. Hello, I'm (insert father's name) (insert child, son or daughter). We had so many happy years together and I am grateful for every moment we shared. People even said we look alike, which I was never sure was a compliment or not. As the minister read my brothers poem, I realized the roses embodied his words and our mother. You brought joy to my life and I will cherish our time together always. A eulogy is essentially a way of saying farewell to a person who has passed away by expressing and sharing thoughts, feelings and experiences that honour and respect the deceased. My dad was difficult to sum up in a few words, but some that come to mind are: [hardworking/gentle/loving/caring/strong/hilarious/funny/serious/crafty/intelligent]. Today, we say goodbye to a beloved grandfather, a proud veteran, and a true friend. Moving and dancing to music makes you happy. I was obsessed. When she managed to burn chicken each and every time, you wouldn't hear a peep from me. Rest in peace, [Name]. It was totally inappropriate. So I want to tell you what I remember. These will really help everyone who read this understand that AD makes it difficult for seniors to convey the whatever physical changes or discomfort they feel. I can say, without a doubt, that my grandmother was the love of my life. All of this without complaint and without making us feel as though we were burdens. While my heart is broken that she is gone and I will never see my sister again in this life, a part of me feels that she is no longer suffering and is at peace with our mother in Gods kingdom. I remember years after Dads health had declined, a good friend of mine found a childrens maths book on the kitchen counter. Youll often find tributes in books, art, film, poems, and other media, but these arent the only places to pay tribute to someone youve lost or to someone important to you. Life was hard, but it was also worth it for her. Through her giving spirit she and my dad saw each other through some rough early years. He remarked at her graveside that how we live now, going forward, is part of her legacy. The Dodd family grave in the back of the church evokes pioneer history. He was ever-present. My mother was no exception. I think she was ready to go. Written in the form of detailed descriptions of different memories Leif had with his mother, Barbara's eulogy is a perfect example of the how the accumulation of small moments woven together end up creating a beautiful landscape of a life well lived. These last emotions may surprise you, but people commonly feel love . Even with a donor, chances of survival are still not 100%. 2019by Katie Boer. That next week she got me up early every morning so I could soak in a warm bath to ease my pain. I know my grandmother would be rolling in her grave if she could see me up here giving her even the slightest bit of praise. x,LMevKG|9Tp$Rwz*vkoQViyv]\]z{.eOB/|v]|~| ut)~= "y~VSw/bw0-8_5~ For World Poetry Day, we had three poems from people affected by dementia, which we're featuring here. Growing up, my father was always [description of attitude / personality]. I know that she is now at peace, and I take comfort in knowing that she will always be with me in spirit. Thus, we must try to travel along the track of life in the best possible way -- loving, forgiving, giving, and sharing. By mentioning it and telling some stories from the journey you'll be showing your love for your aunt in the good times and the bad and also making others realise that it's ok to talk about it. For all of those who decided to travel long distances, who reached out to us during our time of need, and who took the time to help us get this set up -- you have no idea how much this has meant to our family. Im honored to share this time with [Name]s friends, family, and others in remembering [his/her] life. Because of her, my dreams were bigger, my achievements were bigger, my life was bigger. It was unanimous, because I am the talker! Her frequency is different from dementia caused by Alzheimer's disease, which is 10-20% of cases . Our dementia advisors can support friends and family of those with dementia with information and advice about navigating local services and applying for benefits. When Schelli picked him up, he had dark red around his mouth, and she said the jam must have been good. Not sure where to start? Thank you. endobj At birth, we boarded the train of life and met our parents, and we believed that they would always travel by our side. Or middle of the night runs to the emergency room when one of my sisters or myself had an emergency and mom needed support. What I know for certain is that anyone who knew [Name], knew how [brave/special/funny/kind/unique] they were. I was [age] and had just [descriptor]. And thanks to those that joined the train at one time or another. Visit Juanita's memorial website to learn more about her life. A rare and special soul, he will be missed so very much. The travel books said the road from Tulum to Punta Allen was anywhere from 1 to 4 hours depending on road conditions. That is how we will always remember her. 2023 Advance Local Media LLC. It's a way to remind myself why I write on this topic. When [she/he] was young, [she/he] participated in [activity]. At the same time, in her way, she prepared me as best she could. A man of few words and many talents, my father spent much of his life in [work / career description] and caring for [his children/family/wife/etc.]. Unlike other conditions, it can be . I was hesitant to release her, to let anyone else but me hold her, even her father. Written by Shelley Gilbert This is a workbook to encourage conversations about loss between children and adults and is aimed at helping bereaved children between the ages of 8 and 15 primarily. Similar to the story, its not unusual to see eulogies include one or two favorite memories the person had with the deceased. She brought a light to our lives, she often instigated fun but was also patient when we stepped out of line. It made me want to make sure she was taken care of in each and every way. George or "papa" was a man of many words. On my wedding day, he walked me down the aisle and when I delivered Zeb and Simon, he was there with us and he held them first. There's a genetic component to our risk, but it's relatively small, maybe 20 percent. We have a fantastic range of gifts especially designed for people living with dementia, to make everyday life that bit easier - from reminder clocks and easy-to-use phones to simple music players and dementia-friendly clothes. She was strong, kind, and warmhearted, and I will always treasure the time we spent together. Dementia; Dementia. You brought joy to everyone around you and I am grateful to have been a part of your life. Ill never forget the day that Peter, Betsy, Chuck, Sandra, Ronnie and I took off to Bermuda with Dad on his 38-foot Seafarer. In the end, [Grandfather's Name] passed away peacefully in Florida at the age of 82, surrounded by the love of his family. His greatest love in life was [Name] and his favorite pasttime was [pasttime]. So I usually just smiled sheepishly. I wish we had taken a picture of the three of us that day. [] I have received several requests for the playlist of funeral songs from my mothers services. Eventually when a second child came along, she stopped working to be a stay-at-home mother and continue supporting her husband as he continued working and pursuing a Masters Degree. He even bought a Unicycle. For years, he worked every Sunday. She volunteered and eventually worked in the school district with severely handicapped children. While looking through some books I came across a note mom wrote. Not in a material sense, but in matters of character. % No more suffering, no more pain, no more Alzheimers disease. Supportive. [He/she] was hilarious. I dare say they may be some of the richest blessings you may receive. Away by James Whitcomb Riley. These trips instilled a sense of travel in all of us. When we first met at [company], [name] was one of the first people to make me feel welcome. YouTubes privacy policy is available here and YouTubes terms of service is available here. He really was lost! She was surrounded with family and love in her last days and to me that is the most important thing. How can I describe [Name] in a way that's accurate? (Orting, WA) Jean M. Wilkenson. Barbara's life, visit her memorial website, Juliann's life, visit her memorial website, Richard's life, visit his memorial website, Do Not Sell or Share My Personal Information. We weren't just friends, we were [brothers/sisters]. Shannon reminded us of that. ', Illustrator of the Year, British Book Awards - 2018, Tina Fey: 'Only in comedy is an obedient white girl from the suburbs a diversity candidate', Kennedy Center Mark Twain Award - 2010, Sacha Baron Cohen: 'Just think what Goebbels might have done with Facebook', Anti Defamation League Leadership Award - 2019, Greta Thunberg: 'How dare you', UN Climate Action Summit - 2019, Charlie Munger: 'The Psychology of Human Misjudgment', Harvard University - 1995, Lawrence O'Donnell: 'The original sin of this country is that we invaders shot and murdered our way across the land killing every Native American that we could', The Last Word, 'Dakota' - 2016. In VA my mother continued with Kairos Prison missions but also got involved in Therapeutic riding for special needs children. Now go home and take care of your babies. He stood up for what he believed in. He worked hard to get to where he was and without a doubt, could be described as a successful man. That's what I hear from every health expert I talk to. And I was right. Im honored to share this time with our friends, family and community and join in remembering [Name]'s life and ongoing legacy. This site is protected by reCAPTCHA and the Google. You can change anything you want later, using your settings panel. This beautiful eulogy is a wonderful example of how to interweave testament to someone's personality and character with the core occassions of their life. We worry about our parents or our spouse, and we worry about ourselves. I am so thankful to have had the opportunity to work with [him/her], and I know that [she/he] has left a lasting impression on everyone [she/he] met. Visit Shannon's memorial website to learn more about her life. I will laugh some more, through everything. I want to thank you for the life you were able to let our grandma keep. [Name] -- you were one of the most unique and special souls that has ever graced this earth. y:b_,#EO.heO3b (+CB$]E3*s?gWSM)J ewKI7e],c{~\I 1>eFM,[O45=fy&.Khz| 8|z2{IaG96|c8g@5-}h#?KzmJQe\!qWv4Xb)4eX:(tfc?N{0Pn5bqb?srm\%2T(G%,H]3/jd?50^$$\_/d'oj2G w@cL*j(OKSP5#nivR@8llOL8R(H`P\_ p= He'd sneak out in the middle of the night when we were younger to take us to midnight premiers of our favorite movies -- much to Mom's dismay. Residential care facilities do not want to accommodate high care dementia respite. They would come alive up on horseback, it relaxed them and they responded to the games mom and other volunteers played to engage the children. To paraphrase the words of Martin Luther Kings epitaph, Alan is: Free at last, free at last Thank God Almighty he is free at last". You're voting too often. Other popular story topics include major accomplishments, life events, the impact the person had on others, childhood memories and years, stories about traveling, marriage, family, children, or other important stories. She was everything to so many and I'm so blessed to see you all here today. I like that sentiment; I think theres some wisdom there, and perhaps some solace for those of us who are grieving our moms loss so deeply still. It was instead the very worst fate he could have imagined for himself. He told children they had the Chinese Rot or the epizudics, or he was going to have to take out their gizzard. At the same time, I know [Name] would hate it if they saw me up here crying, talking only about their loss and ignoring all the wonderful things [he/she] did with their precious time here on Earth. It can also provide a powerful insight into what dementia means for those living with it every day. Dad, I love you. After being at the nursing home, watching and waiting, that Tuesday through Thursday, I stayed home all day Friday. A memorial website (which can be referred to. Quickly connect with local funeral homes and easily price out a burial or cremation. What I learned from her was to embrace joy, to find a spark of happiness in each and every day, and to cry it out when you have to. I thought, how do I write a eulogy for a man such as Dad? Sample Eulogy for Father. My nearly 42- year life is right about the length of the job she retired from. The truth is that of all the people that have been in my life, my grandma is the one that has been the most present and participatory. I could barely read it, I was crying so hard. Countless hours were spent volunteering with the food bank, the humane society, setting up various cancer walks and runs and trying his hardest to do good in this world and to provide a sense of togetherness with the few precious years he had on this planet. 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